During 2006, I traveled to the Australian capital for an admissions interview for medical school. I figured to arrange accommodation after getting there, however upon reaching the city, a major event was happening and all the budget hostels and affordable lodging were completely sold out.
As a visitor from the city-state of Singapore, I thought perhaps I could just sleep at the terminal – but quickly found Canberra airport, in contrast to Changi Airport, does not operate all night. Not knowing quite what to do and getting a bit desperate, I caught public transport and found myself drifting near the casino, thinking I could pass those hours in an establishment operating all night. Admittedly, this plan in the ideal condition for nailing a crucial interview the next day, but as a cash-strapped student, luxury accommodation was impossible.
The world needs more folks with such compassion.
It seems I seemed out of place since a woman spotted me walking aimlessly through downtown and wondered if everything was alright. I shared my situation and without hesitation she said I could sleep on the floor at her university residence at the local university – an ideal turn of events, given that my my medical school interview would take place the next morning. She even offered a meal: one filled rolls she had from her work shift. I was able to use the bathroom and somewhere safe and secure to sleep.
With hindsight, I now understand the significant risk she accepted as a young woman inviting a male stranger she had only just encountered stay in her room. At that time I existed within a bubble of male privilege and not even thinking about things like that. As a dad now, I’m amazed she took that chance – and remain incredibly thankful.
Ultimately, I did not study at that university, and I didn’t meet that kind stranger again, yet her memory has stayed with me her selfless deed of human compassion. My sincere desire is that karma has rewarded her generosity tenfold. Our society requires more people with such compassion.
